Amber, you are far better off without the boyfriend who failed to understand what a true blessing your meaty pussy lips are. As you mention, he apparently was seriously attracted to another woman whose lips were clearly visible as she surfed. That simply proves the point that I have tried to make on this site. Men, and women who are attracted to women, simply love pussy, and the lips that come with them. The bigger the better. The only thing better than pussy is more pussy, as one of the commentors on here stated. Congratulations to you for getting back to being in love with yourself, with your pussy and your lips, to playing with them, looking at them, and thoroughly enjoying them. You have arrived at the right mental state, which is to appreciate the gifts you carry with you all the time, and the great pleasure to be derived from them. Should you wish to share some of those photos, feel free to send some.