I was in the exact same situation as you, and because of it I waited
until i was 17 and with my current boyfriend for 3 months. Im 19 now
(just turned) and since me and him seperated the last time I have
"gotten around" I guess you could say. So far none of the guys I have
been with have said anything bad. Most, if not all, didnt care. I
freaked myself out over nothing it seemed. But, I have stuck with
older more experienced boys. Some men. My first, and current
boyfriend had only been with 2 other girls before me. My vagina was
the first he had actually ever saw except for in porn. He was 16 (hes
a month younger than me and i lost it right after my 17th bday). He
LOVES it. This other guy i was seeing, Biggest whore ever, but when i
asked him about it, he told me that he has seen many shapes and
sizes, no 2 pussies are ever the same, and than he went as far as to
tell me i was the best looking girl, with the best, most breathtaking
body he had ever seen or been with. That poor boy, sadly to say, fell
in love with me. I unfortunatly couldnt meet his feelings, He is
still currently my best friend.
Sorry for the story
there hahah my point is that there is nothing wrong with waiting. The
more mature and older the guy the easier it will be. Younger guys
tend to be more immature and inexperienced. You could always do it
with your panties on. Maybe give him hints ahead of time. and really,
if he does go as far as to make rumors about you (which isnt likely)
your better off without him, and chances are someone is going to hear
about it and admire it. there are many many MANY long labia lovers
out there. You would be very surprised my dear. In the 2 years that i
have been sexually active, as scary as it was at first, i have grown
to LOVE it. it may still look funny to me. but if my man loves it,
and the guys ive been with like it, than what reason do i have to be
unhappy about it? Just like you :) be happy with what you got. it
could always be a whoooole lot worse.