Dear K, It's really just like any other sexually charged part
of the female body. Don't women spend a fortune having their
tits enlarged, made to look upright, firm, and young? Don't
those same women spend tons of money to have their lips on their face
all plumped up like Angelina Jolie? Isn't a plump round firm
ass admired, with it's own set of plastic surgery proceedures to
augment it? The same is true of your vaginal lips.
Plumper, larger, is sexier. Unfortunately, a lot of women
accept the portrayal of the magazines that a simple, unadorned slit
is the goal. Far from the truth. What is actually far
more sexy is what you have, large, thick, long lips, displaying to
whoever you show them to just how sexy you are. In this
day and age, we forget that those tiny slits were originally made the
ideal for models only, and that was because of the anti pornography
laws which formerly existed in most places. Playboy couldn't
publish a photo of those beautiful lips of yours without winding up
in court. Penthouse was the first men's magazine to publish
photos of "pink" to much public acclaim. Now, of course, life
is very different, but those attitudes about photos remain with us.
They set the standard, which is the absolutely incorrect
attitude. Men love larger lips, larger breasts, a well formed
ass with some meat to it. Don't let the magazine photos set the
standard for you. It doesn't agree with what men look for, or
with what excites them. I believe the women who are interested
in women will agree. Sex is sex. What attracts is any of
your sexual parts which are more apparent, more obvious, more fun to
play with.