I don't know your age, so I don't know the age of the men you seek. But I can say anyone who would make fun of you must be pretty immature. Shrug it off. Being a full lipped women is the sexiest thing in the world. Don't chop anything off! I can only speak from a male perspective. I will tell you full labia is very erotic. This is no argument. That's the way it is. Love you body the way it is.