anxiety about baring all b/c of long lips

Hello there
You are not alone. What is important is to be able to adopt the right mental attitude. Try and be comfortable with yourself as you are. There are many men, including myself, who are fascinated by, and sexually attracted to, women with large labia. Perhaps u need to associate with older, more mature guys who may be more accepting of your beautiful gift from Mother Nature. Feel free to write me at my e-mail address.

You've had your 2 boyfriends say that they love your lips.  Listen to that.  THEY LOVE YOUR LIPS.  Now YOU need to love your lips.  Seriously!  Love your sexy pussy.  Finger yourself and LOVE it.  Love the way your lips feel on your fingers.  Imagine how incredibly good and sexy that feels to your boyfriends.  Imagine what they're missing with the other girls who are less fortunately endowed than you!  Look at your sexy pussy and LOVE your dark protruding lips- lucky YOU!  Not every woman is as fortunate as you, you know.  To be given the ultimately sexy pussy, and you're doubting yourself.  It's ok, it's better than ok, YOU HAVE AN AMAZING PUSSY!!!!  If your girlfriends ever comment on your pussy, you get to tell them you LOVE your pussy, and MEAN IT!!!!  Show it off girl!!!!!

Before u do anything u need to learn to accept them as they are unique and part of you. Im just a little older then you and trust me if you're going to let a guy near you should trust him and he should have respect for you and your body. That's standard anyway. Ive heard guys make negative comments but i just put it down to lack of experience. It's so true what Barry says, a guy a little older may appreciate them more but be picky about the guys you choose. I think the worst comment i've had about mine was "woow" and I didn't know whether that was positive or negative, he sounded excited anyway.lol. I hope this helped you a little!

love your lips. be confident. be proud.
teen boys watch teen porn. unfortunately.

i am testing a theory connecting male circumcision to preference for a "cut" female appearance.

boys with foreskins pull on their own skin and are comfortable with it. it is the same skin as labia skin.

often the cut boys have no idea what was removed from them. they dont know that their head needs a cover to keep it moist.

they subconsciously could be uncomfortable being left out of the skin party.

To Lydia
Was really impressed with your response. Would like to hear more about your personal experiences. Feel free to write me at my e-mail address. Would appreciate it

I feel EXACTLY the same as you !!! (to the original author) and im 18 aswell :( x

k (author) i am the same as you i am 18 and i have been with my first who i hated for 2 years off and on (currently off and on) and a 22 year old who happened to be a good friend of mine at the time. both say they dont mind but when i brought sergery up to my ex he didnt have anything really supportive to say about keeping it. i know he loves me but there were times in our relationship he would slip up that he wanted to sleep with other girls. girls not even comparing to me (not to sound vain but im pretty and i kno it) i took that to heart and i still believe that its because of not having variaty... so here i am going back to school with a bunch of very hot young teenaged boys who want to get with me, but i dont know what to do about it because i dont want to hook up with one of these boys and him not like it and tell everyone (but i really want to hook up with a certain one of these boys). i waited till i was 17 till i lost my virginity because i was afraid of being fucked and chhucked my first time because of down there. i cant seem to meet older men i find attractive (im more into my age group) and i never told ANY of my best friends EVER. I want to be able to wear tna pants to school and not have girls wispering about my "cameltoe". and i even had this guy i was into ask me if i had one without even looking at my crotch. and even now after i read this im still going to be afraid of getting intimate with guys because i only ever hear them making fun of them. even my ex would say "playful" comments about it not trying to hurt me but they did i am soooooo sensitive about that subject. i want to be able to experiment like any "normal" girl but i dont need to be the laughing stock of a very imature high school.

 
Just how much pink shows if you have full length pubic hair? You have a right to wear your pubes full length.

Just how often do girls in college get completely naked in front of each other? And if they did get naked, is it cool to look closely at another girl's privates? Unless you are bi or lesbian, your pink bits are no business of any other women. Their purpose is to delight a man.

When you let a man see your pink bits, you are doing him a great favour. A really great favour. In exchange for that, his attitude towards your bits should be respectful, even worshipful. If he makes childish wisecracks, forget him. He simply does not deserve to see you naked.