I'm a medium skinned black woman with a pale pussy... i think it
looks like i've got frostbite or something down there but i haven't
gotten any complaints.
One time i had a boyfriend that liked
to slap my labia really hard while he was fingering me, and i asked
him if he was doing it to turn them redder. He said "no baby, i
just want to make you feel good!" that made me feel stupid for
asking. He was a great lay though.
Rhe in any case be
happy with what you've got. Chances are your worries are only
your own, and most men would never think of criticizing their
favorite part of a woman in any case!