Aliya
October 16, 2005
hello,
this website was given to me by my mum as i had tolkd her
that i hated my vagina and the way it looked and i seriously wanted
surgery. I'm 16 and a virgin i was so scared to have sex or for anyone
to touch em down below. I thought it was only me as not enough
information was given to me about my vagina the only ones i could see
were the models in magazines. This website has helped me so much as i
know now that i'm normal and there are other people that felt the same
way as i did i still wouldn't be comfortable about anyone seeing my
vagina yet but i have so much more confidence in my self after
visiting this page. So i'd just like to say thankyou for putting
something here to help people that feel as though they're deformed but
actually they are completely normal.
Dear Aliya,
On the front page of this site I tell anyone under the age of 18 to leave because of the sexual nature of the subject. However, I know that we're discussing stuff here that can be a real concern for teenagers as well. With that in mind I made sure to keep this site clean and classy so no one, young or old, will be offended here.
When it comes to sexually themed sites, parents should have the final word in this and I think your mother shows some great parenting abilities to direct you here. Obviously she cares a lot about you and wants you to be happy with yourself. She must have looked at the site, analyzed it and understood the educational value of it.
The letters section in itself is worth gold. Every time someone writes about her or his experience, this site becomes stronger. Your letter adds to its value and, who knows, it might make the difference for another insecure girl in the future.
One more thing my dear Aliya. I'm very glad you've come to understand how normal the shape of your vulva is. But always remember that it's more than just normal... it's desirable and beautiful!