Dear Kel,
A web site like this one is a great place to build your
self-esteem, learn to love your body, and love yourself. Many men
love women with large labia. I do. People are conditioned by the
media to think that everyone should look the same. The fact is, none
of us are the same. I feel sorry for women who have surgery on
themselves because they think they will be more attractive to men. Be
open and honest with the one you love.
Don't be afraid to ask him
(or her) what he (or she) likes about your body. On the other hand,
don't be afraid to tell him (or her) what gives you pleasure.