This is a rather confusing page and discussion. I just found the page
today, and as a large-labia woman I feel a little shocked that this
kind of page exists. I mean I seriously had NO IDEA my labia is
something "not normal". This page makes me feel like it is not
normal. Why? Well, my labia minora is huge and hangs outside a lot,
more than on the pictures of this site. But I simply had no idea
there was something so strange about it that there needs to be an
actual webpage put up just to say "it is normal". I mean I don't
think we would need a page saying "ladies, it is ok and normal to
have blue eyes". So my conclusion is: there is something about large
labia minora that doesn't somehow match the beauty standards. I
simply did not know this! (I don't watch porn or anything else which
would have given me this information about the actual "standard".) I
am not being sarcastic with this message, these are my genuine
feelings. It feels like I had just been told that "you know what,
girl, the world might be telling you that your middle-long hair is
not ok, but it is NORMAL". I never had an idea it would not be...
I wish I could make myself clear about this, sorry if it
sounds unclear, for English is my third language...but I'll try
hard...
What I am now pondering is:
1. How rare are
these really much out hanging labia minora? It must not be "the
normal" thing, for if every single woman in the world had something
like I have hanging out their thing, this page would not be needed.
So I would love to have some statistics: is this only some 10
percent, or half of women or what?
2. Why have those
not-out-hanging pussies become the beauty standard? Where does this
idea come from? I mean i HAVE known that for example skinny women are
the beaty standard in Western countries, and I am not skinny, but it
does not bother me a bit. But I think it is sort of "common
knowledge" to know that being thin is the standard (no matter if you
are trying to achieve it or not). However, as I said, I had NO idea
that the not-hanging pussies (which to me now seems are somehow more
"normal" or "typical") were a standard! How did you people find this
out?! Was it only porn etc.? Or did you discuss this with your
friends, did your husband say something, HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU
WERE NOT SUPPOSED TO LIKE IT? Being a straight female I have not seen
other womens genitals so often that I could compare.
3. People
say that the non-hanging pussies look like "teenager pussies", and
hanging ones look like "real womens" thing or "adult". Does this have
some scientific backround: I mean are the hanging things usually
something that "develop" after teenage or something? For I am a young
person and have ALWAYS had this stuff hanging out, when I was a
teenager, too, and I thought it is just something that you either
have or don't, like skin color, eye color etc. But in this page I
find out that often it is that people have gotten these hanging
things in time?
All this is really strange to me, and I hope
you can try to explain a bit, please!