jake444
September 2, 2005
I can remember as a kid finding one of my friends dads porno mag
collection. As we looked through the pictures, there were comments
made that the size of the womens lips meant she had had sex with many
men. It's easy to see how ignorance and bias are created early on and
carried into adult life. Even now that I'm in my thirtys, I still
hear comments that small, hidden inner lips must mean she's a virgin.
Anyway, I met my wife when she was only 17. She had a small
tight body and was absolutly beautiful (still is), and she was a
virgin. When we had sex the first time she didn't make any effort to
hide her pussy. I immediatly noticed her inner lips were larger than
normal, but they also hang open a good bit. Even though she had never
had intercorse her pussy had the appearance of being "overused"
according to an ignorant male standard.
It didn't bother me
at all. As the years have gone by we have enjoyed a great marriage
and supercharged sex life. Several years ago I talked her into going
to a nude beach. We enjoyed it and started attending several nudist
resorts. I have seen more labia than I can count. They're all
different! I love to see my beautiful wife laying nude in the sun
with her parted lips exposed. Many guys steal glances and have
positive reactions to what they see.
Anyway, to all the girls
with labia that don't conform to the airbrushed playboy standard,
don't worry about it. If a guy chooses not to like you or says
something negative about the appearance of your labia, he's not man
enough to worry about having. Someday he will probably realise how
ignorant he was and know it was his loss.
Dear jake444,
Yep, thinking that small inner lips equals low mileage is one of the biggest misconceptions about labia size. I'm sure there are old whores that have as good as no inner lips, just like there are young virgin nuns with the biggest butterflies.