I don't know what's wrong with these guys! Your husband should be
supporting you now. Not making you feel bad and unattractive. The
change you talk about is likely not nearly as much as think. But his
attitude is going to through the issue way out of perspective. Have
you actually asked him how he feels bout your labia? Just ask him
straight out.
If you come from a family were sexuality
was taboo this is going to be more difficult. You have a whole life a
head of you with this guy. If he doesn't find you attractive now, I
say cut bait and fish. Get rid of him.
Sounds harsh
but gee. Listen to the people here. There are lots of men who would
love at you and love it. Good luck.