Really sorry you feel that way.
But let me ask you this: Do you
feel that way about a man's dangling flesh? While I am about
average, I find that bigger is better (both women and men)...at least
to look at. And when it comes to pleasure, touching a woman
with small labia is actually a little boring. I mean it feels
and everything, but I really like more. I love to cup my wifes
labia in my hand and let the lips push through between my fingers.
And when I get my mouth around her large labia the feeling is
fantastic for both of us. You have the luck to have a large
labia, which may also give you extra nerve endings for greater
pleasure. Something like men who have not been circumcised.
By the way, my wife felt the same way when we got together 35
years ago. She asked if she could get surgery to remove them.
I said "no way, I love them" .
Believe me, it has not been
kindness. If they are anything like me they love you first for
who you are, and then for what you have. That you have extra is
a bonus.
Be proud