I too know how you have felt.. I have been sexually active, but have never allowed any guy to see me "down there". I have always been afraid he'd not like me. Or would break up with me because of that... Even just the thought of letting a guy see me there is scary because i to thought i was not "normal"... Now i am pregnant.. The guy left when he got the sex.. Now im with a guy i want to be active with.. We've been together for almost 5 months, but am terrified of what he will think of my labia... I've told him i don't like how i look there and i'm not sure if im ready for sex just yet.. He said he is perfectly fine with that and wants to wait until i am ready and am comfortable.. But fact is is im due in a month. and from what i hear sex with a newborn in the house isn't so easy to get anymore.. Any advice on how to open up enough to him before baby comes out?! The pics here are great.. Some women are even larger then my lips... but, still am slightly self conscious..