Queenie,
Just know that there are hundreds of us out there
that LOVE large labias and large clits! If he is not into it,
it may be because of familiarity. You can always spice things
up with new approaches and different ways to have sex. No need
to fixate on one particular aspect of your physique. The major
sex organ for anyone, is their brain, so think of things to tantilze.
He probably DOES appreciate you in every respect, but, like
many men, is not all that expressive.
:-)
Jon