Hey, i just read your letter and felt i needed to reply....
i
myself was dating a female for several years, and i also have very
large labia minora. I was so embarrased about letting another
female see me, wondering 'if she has small lips will she think
im a freak!?' but i eventually did let my partner see me and
she loved them! When we were dating a while i asked her if she
thought i was normal and she replied that she had 2 previous
girlfriends with large labia and that she prefers large lips as they
are more fun to play with. So my advise is dont worry what
people think, they may love them!
x