Billy, I just have to ask...where are you currently staying?
Another country or a different part of your home country?
I'm curious where you have found this to be rare?
Livvy, I think this site (and the responses) has also risen out
of the current labia reduction frenzy happening today. Think
about it...if you were a man who loved women (or a woman who loved
women) and you knew/felt that large labia were both normal and
attractive, and you heard of women being driven to cut off their
lips--CUT OFF their lips, as in sliced off with a scalpel--wouldn't
you want to say something that might help that woman to accept and
love herself as she is, and not undergo a unnecessary procedure that
will permanently alter what is already perfectly normal and lovely?
Every woman has, of course, the right to do whatever she wants
with her own body as she sees fit, but how sad is it to see women
convinced that their normal, natural, and attractive labia are 'not
right' and must be cut off?
If this site doesn't do
it for you, so be it, but I'm sure it has helped many a woman to feel
better.