Strange as it is to answer this question to a 14 year old girl, in
all honesty, you shouldn't be worried about a sexual encounter for
quite some time I hope.
Listen, by time you're ready for the
responsibility required for intimacy your situation will be quite
common. Lots and lots of young women have the same blessings as you.
So don't worry about the differences but the similarities that you
and others have in common.
Remember it takes boys a little
longer to mature into what really attracts them to the female design.
So wear that bikini with pride. Although you might know what you
have, nobody will notice through underwear and swimwear.