Nicole
November 11, 2007
I noticed my labia were larger than normal in my late teens when I saw the supposed "perfect" small labias in pornography. I told my current boyfriend not to expect to go down on me because I didn't like it and it made me uncomfortable. It was my excuse because I was ashamed. Well...I happen to be with a guy who likes to eat pussy and he would ask in the heat of the moment every so often and I always said no. Eventually I felt horrible for always refusing him and I said okay. Afterwards, I started crying, sure that he thought I was disgusting or abnormal. He has never said a word about it and he LOVES to do it. I am more comfortable with it now and we can't keep our hands off of eachother. He also claims that sex with me just feels better in general. Yeah, he could be saying that because I'm the one he is having sex with...and it would be stupid of him to say otherwise, but it makes me feel so confident. I still haven't gotten to the point that I can let him see me...down there. If we are having sex with the lights on and he wants to switch to a position that I am exposed or he wants to go down on me, I make him turn off the light. Thanks to you, maybe I can get to that point. I REALLY appreciate this site. It is so tastefully done. Thank you for helping all of us women who have been made to feel abnormal by the media and uneducated people!
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