T.
November 4, 2007
I just really want to thank you for this website. It has made me feel
so much better about myself to know that there are men out there that
not only accept large labia, but even PREFER it. I have been self
concious about my labia since i was old enough to remember, probably
9 years old. I remember one day when i was 13 or 14 watching
Howard Stern, some actress was on his show who had labiaplasty and
they showed her before and after pictures. Although the pictures were
blurred to the audience, Howard Stern's and the other guys on the
show's reactions made it clear that they were disgusted by the
appearance of her large labia in her before photos. However this
opened my eyes to the fact that there was actually a surgery to "fix"
this. I immediately got on the doctor's website and began emailing
him about cost and ect. At that time, it was only about $5,000. I
actually started saving up money for this surgery. I kept in contact
through emails and constantly revisited his website to view the
before and after pictures, trying to imagine what my "after" picture
would look like. Although the thought of surgery scared me and the
risk of losing sensation didn't quite seem worth it.. all i wanted
was to feel "normal". I cant even begin to tell you what it feels
like to be a girl growing up, already self conscious about her body,
and to have this big secret hovering over you. I am now 20 yrs old. A
couple years ago i contacted that doctor again and sent him pictures
and ect.. now the surgery costs about $12,000. That is RIDICULOUS! He
is obviously taking advantage of these women's insecurities and
profiting from it like crazy.. Thankfully, one day i came across this
website... and I THANK GOD that i did. It's one thing to see pictures
of women with labia like my own, but its a whole different experience
to read messages from actual men out there that adore, prefer, and
even worship large labia like my own. I too am beginning to see just
how sexy they really are.
Being a little bit on the bisexual
side, though never actually acting on it, I can only imagine what it
would feel like to be able to suck, kiss, lick and play with another
woman's large labia. It would be such a turn on and such a pleasant
surprise to go down on a woman and have her large labia revealed to
me. Being someone who knows first hand how insecure that can make a
woman, i would go out of my way to show her that i thought it was
sexy and that she was BLESSED, not cursed. My current boyfriend,
infact my first and only boyfriend, who I've been with for a
few years now, will sometimes tell me all the right things such as
"God blessed you, your'e not like other girls.. youre special"....
however, he also makes comments sometimes to play on my insecurities
such as calling it my "little penis" and other degrading remarks. I
think my boyfriend just lacks sexual maturity. I think it takes a
real man, who is sexually mature and a FREAK in bed to appreciate
large, beautiful labia.
I wont say that im completely healed of
being insecure about my labia... i still have my moments where i look
at myself and get that feeling of disgust, or when i want to wear a
bathing suit but im scared because I KNOW people can see it and some
people just arent accepting or even aware of such labia..and the
thought of having any new sexual partners scares me because i will be
worried about what they think... it will take time for me to be
completely healed of this. This insecurity has been deeply rooted in
me since i was a child. I really dont think anybody could understand
unless they've gone through it themselves. I REALLY want to thank you
for this website, whenever im beginning to feel depressed about
myself and start considering surgery again.. i just go to this
website and read all the comments from men who appreciate a girl like
me and what i have to offer them. I REALLY REALLY thank you.. i hope
you know what you're doing for the confidence of many girls out
there.
Anyways.... Sorry for writing you a freakin novel here
but i just really felt the need to express myself and my gratitude to
you. If you do post this, i hope that it helps girls out there are
feeling the way i feel/felt. Especially young girls, because i know
how truly haunting it can be. Girls, do not be ashamed... all labia
are DIFFERENT, you are NOT deformed, large labia are common enough to
make you "normal" and yet rare enough to consider yourself blessed
and lucky to be one of these women. There ARE men out there that
appreciate and love large lips. And if yours doesn't.. then you dont
need him anyway.. move on to someone who will love and appreciate
you... ALL OF YOU! Again Labi Amore.. thanks for the self esteem
booster and please continue your work.
Dear T.,
I have received many letters like this, but yours especially is very
well articulated. Because large labia are like such a sex magnet to
me, I tend to forget sometimes that unless someone has gone through
the insecurities of growing up with such labia, one can't really
understand the hardship it can cause. Thanks for reminding!
About those surgeons. In a way I'm glad that they charge
ridiculous amounts of money for labia surgery. Otherwise you and many
other young women would have had their labia amputated already. Those
high prices cause women to hesitate about any surgery plans they may
have, so they have more time to discover the beauty of their labia!
Matt
February 23, 2008
Hi T!
Let me chime in along with Labi to let you know that
there are a chorus of us guys out there that vastly prefer and
worship the more endowed woman. (That is not to say that women
who are smaller aren't fine too! :-) ) I hope women
visiting this site will gain confidence that they are JUST FINE as
they are!
Matt
steve
February 25, 2008
Hi T
I was married for ten years to a woman with no labia, I
married young and didn't have much experience so I guess I thought
they all looked the same. Boy was I wrong, I love large labias, it's
such a bonus you blessed ladies have, please don't be ashamed. Thank
goodness we're all not the same, it would be a pretty boring place.
Steve
Billy
December 21, 2011
Amen, amen, amen!
Alex
December 24, 2011
Okay, did anyone else notice the MINDFUCK this woman's boyfriend is
doing to her? Complimenting her, then taking it away by making
degrading comments?
T, your letter was great until the
sad bit about your boyfriends behavior. Especially since he
knows you are still insecure to a certain degree about your labia.
Tell him to knock it off! I'm guessing he's around the
same age as you, and he may be sexually inexperienced, but even a
20-year-old sexually inexperienced guy should know not to knock a
womans' pussy, esp. if she has expressed any insecurities whatsoever.
And giving compliments, then making degrading comments and
playing on your insecurities? What the hell is that?
There are plenty of guys out there who will give
nothing but honest, sincere compliments, because they truly love
large lips on a woman, and also plenty of men who while they might
not prefer it or who like any variety, would never say anything
negative to a woman whatsoever about whatever it is she might have,
out of respect and consideration for her feelings.
This--"large labia are common enough to make you "normal" and yet
rare enough to consider yourself blessed and lucky to be one of these
women"--is right on the money. That's exactly how I feel as well!
It's wonderful you have come such a long way in your
feelings about yourself (which is so hard to do, I speak from
experience), esp. since you have had this concern since such a young
age, and I'm glad you didn't fall under the surgeons blade before you
were able to realize just how perfectly normal and beautiful you
truly are, but I wonder if you'd feel even better if you didn't have
a guy around you who was jerking you around emotionally.
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