Well, ok, fair enough. Those who wish to be truly clinically accurate can refer to the external female genitalia as the vulva. House O' Chicks in San Francisco has done a lot to promote vulva love and awareness, mainly from a feminist perspective: http://www.houseochicks.com/. I have met those women and stayed overnight at their bed and breakfast. Their place is a huge homage to the vulva. Personally, I think it's more fun and more liberating to refer to it using the noble term of cunt, a word they refused to use.