I thought your message was interesting because for years I kept in contact with Dr. Alter, hoping to one day be able to afford labiaplasty because I was ashamed of my large labia. I even sent Dr. Alter pictures and had a phone consult with him. But the older and more sexually mature I get AND thanks in large part to this website, I'm slowly beginning to not only accept my labia, but adore and enjoy them. I'm glad you've also came to that realization :)