emily
June 19, 2005
hi i love your website because it really reassures me that i'm normal.
i used to look at my vagina and think that it was huge and ugly. but
after seeing all the great pictures on your website i realize that my
vagina is completely normal. thank you for that.
But i have one
small problem. i think my clit is too small. for example it is much
smaller than the size of an eraser on the end of a pencil. it just
seems odd that my labia minora is soooo big but my clit is tiny.
there is too much extra skin surrounding my mini clit to feel any
pleasure! what should i do about this?
Dear emily,
I think the look of a large fleshy clit hood can be very sexy but if it stops you from feeling anything in your clit you might want to get some medical opinion on this. In my experience the size of the clitoris itself doesn't have much to do with the pleasure it can produce. I know a girl with a tiny clit, not much bigger than a needle head, who can rub it within a few minutes to orgasm. She doesn't have much skin on top of it though.
Why don't you try to rub your exposed clit while you retract the hood as far back as possible. If that gives you more pleasure you know for sure that it is the extra skin and not the size of the clit that interferes with the sensations. A solution could be a surgical clit-hood reduction, which is comparable to a foreskin circumcision of the penis.
Any surgery carries some risks with it of course, so before taking that step see if there are any other things that can help out. Maybe post your question to one of the forums at thebigvagina.com. Someone might have had the same problem and already found a solution for it.