its fear sweetheart seeing the best thing on earth will bring fear to the weak!! you have a gift and only the worthy can truly accept a gift so wonderful as it is!!!!
College Girl
June 12, 2007
When I was in fifth grade, I asked my Mother about my changing body.
I told her "down there" was getting darker and larger. My Mom, being
as you say blessed with large labia, didn't think anything of it and
said it was normal.
When I started to date around High
School, I had one of my ex-boyfriends tell me that my large inner
lips surprised him and he didn't like them. After that insult for
about a year I hid my body from any man and I constantly felt dirty
and upset about the way I look. I felt cursed. While I consider
myself very attractive on the outside (most men rating me 7-8;blonde,
blue eyes, 5'6, 124 lbs and natural DD breast.) I felt as if no one
could ever know me because of my dark secret.
For the
past four years I've considered doing vaginal reconstruction surgery
to reduce the size of my lips. My OBGYN has told me she doesn't think
I need it and it will be more painful than any other surgery I will
ever have.
I now have a boyfriend I met the start of
my Freshman year at college and I just let him look at me full on for
the first time a month or so ago. He was excited to see and said
nothing changed the way he felt about me. He reassured me that he
wanted to know everything about me. He said he could care less if I
had the surgery and it was ultimately my choice and he would be here
for me.
I somewhat feel that the porn industry has
brainwashed young men in showing them what is attractive. Bubblegum
pink vulva that many people say resembles a prepubescent middle
school girl. It frustrates me that many men are ignorant to what real
women look like and have such high expectations for the women they
bed.
I personally have always thought that large lips inside
panties were attractive. It's sexy seeing a slight bulge as if
they're begging to be loved and to be let out of their confinements.
I often also wonder which movie stars have large lips and if they
would be brave enough to talk about this "small lip" trend.
After seeing your site I feel a bit more empowered about my body.
I am starting to believe that any man who actually cares enough about
the physically appearance of my lips isn't worth my time and could be
possibly gay (my ex who made fun of me flirted with bi-sexuality). I
thank you for having this site for women (especially young women of
my generation) who struggle with their appearances on the inside and
out.
I hope one day I'll be able to be comfortable enough,
or be lucky enough to have someone service me the way they do on this
site. My current boyfriend is inexperienced in that area and is shy
when it comes to oral sex. Because of the way I look no one has ever
wanted to nor have I ever wanted it.
I hope this
changes and I meet one of you guys who love large lips!
Sincerely,
--College Girl
smokinknuckles
February 18, 2008
its fear sweetheart seeing the best thing on earth will bring fear to the weak!! you have a gift and only the worthy can truly accept a gift so wonderful as it is!!!!