Love 'em large
May 30, 2005
I just came across your website,( no pun intended ) and wanted to
respond. My wife was very self conscious about her labia when we first
made love. She asked me if I thought that thay were ugly and too big,
and if I thought that she should have them reduced. I told her that I
thought that they were perfectly normal, and extremely sexy. I asked
her why she would ask me something like that. She had a terrible
experience with her gyn earlier in life. She went in for an exam and
the doctor gasped and brought in a nurse to have a look. He told her
that her labia were abnormal, and that she should have them reduced.
She asked me what I thought about labia reduction, and I told her that first, I'm no fan of plastic surgery. I thought that it was dangerous becuase you are putting your trust in the doctor, and if something goes wrong it can be irreversible. I have also heard that some women have lost sensation from the procedure. It has taken me a long time to convince my wife that her labia are normal
Recently she watched a segment that they had on the Cosmo TV show and the sexologists said that labia are like noses, they come in all shapes and sizes. They basically said the same things that I had said, that her lips are normal, and that she should not have surgery.
We shaved her mons, and the effect is even more sexy ! To me there is nothing more sexy than a clean shaven mons and full, pouty lips. For me it makes oral sex more enjoyable. I love to run my tongue over her smooth mons and take her lips into my mouth then suck and pull on them gently. Like some of the other letters, when we make love her lips move with me, I find that arousing also.
I read some of the other letters. Some of the husbands and boyfriends are completely insensitive. I guess that it seems strange to me that women would find large lips abnormal. It's great to have a site like yours to dispell the myth and and assure women that having large lips is normal, and sexy !
Dear "Love 'em large",
Those damn gynecologists! But they're not all bad though. I read an internet discussion where a woman said she never liked her long lips until her GYN told her how nice they looked. She first wanted to have a labia reduction surgery but he talked her out of it, "bigger is better" he said.