shy
March 24, 2005
Being quite young and inexperienced i have always been very embarrased about my large labia. It took 3 or 4 months for me tp let my first boyfriend see me naked down below because i was so ashamed of how i looked. Then with my new boyfreind it has taken me a month or two to tell him how ashamed i am but he said it doesnt bother him. I think it might though cos he never touches me or goes down on me much but thanks to your website i have realised that having large labia isnt so bad-before i always hated myself because being pretty i thought all my boyfriends would expect me to be 'perfect'(small and dainty) but now i realise that to many men my overdeveloped labia will add to my looks not detract. Thank you for giving me confidence and making me realise that i am not a freak and that some of the most sexy woman have larger labia!
Dear shy,
My heart breaks every time I hear about another girl who suffers from an unneeded shame for having large labia. All I keep thinking then is ...if only they knew that so many men get a kick out of it... if only they knew! So you can imagine my joy when I read comments like yours.
The way you say it sums it up so well: to many men your overdeveloped labia will add to your looks, not detract. Anyway, you got a gift, and I'm very glad you know it.