Bruce Gates
December 28, 2004
As a connoisseur and worshipper of fine labia, I found your site, not
only well done but your photography was outstanding and the selection
beyond description. You have one of the most attractive selections of
assorted labia. All displays of the Labia are uniquely beautiful. I
had a friend once who said that women's vagina is ugly and disgusting.
At the moment when he said that I was puzzled how he could say that,
when I felt that each Vagina and its Labia was so beautiful. I
personally never feel like I can see too many they are all so
different but so pretty.
Your site is magnificent! I was so
impressed.
Thank You,
Bruce Gates
Dear Bruce,
Odd as it seems there are men out there who believe that vaginas are ugly and gross. For some this may have been caused after having one or more bad experiences with women whose vaginas were disgusting. Some women take so little care of themselves down there that any guy who goes south on her is bound to have negative thoughts afterwards. If he is young or inexperienced this can turn him to think that all vaginas are repulsive.
The main cause for men to get grossed out by some vaginas is the smell and/or discharge that some women have. A healthy clean vagina smells usually just fine—or even deliciously sexy when the girl is excited. But there are vaginal infections that create unpleasant odors and not-so-pretty discharges.
Here are the three main ones: the very mild smelling yeast infection, the strong smelling trichomoniasis (trich) or the extremely unpleasant fishy bacterial vaginosis (BV). These diseases are usually easy to treat with simple medication but some women don't know this. Doctors see this stuff all the time and there is no reason why women should be embarrassed to tell them. (Men can also have nasty infections down there, so this counts for them as well.)
Another point is the hairiness, which can be extreme at times. Unless her partner prefers the hairy look, a woman who trims or shaves her pubics is usually seen as more attractive. It allows easier access to the fun bits and gives a sexier appearance to the vulva. Of course this is an issue of personal preference—for her and for her partner—and her wishes should be respected.
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