This is great news!

Lola

February 15, 2010

Right off the bat, I'll say I'm 21 and still a virgin (though very experienced with pleasuring myself). I've also been watching porn for a long time now, but have only recently realized just how much larger my clit (1 in) and labia (2 in stretched) are than the typical pornstars. I therefore reasoned with myself that mine looks disgusting and must be abnormal. Thus, one reason I've never had a proper boyfriend is due to my anti-socialness due to self-consciousness. Thanks to your website I now see why a man would find a large labia attractive. After hearing crude comments online about flappy ones resembling roast beef, I was extremely put off...

Again, thank you.

P.S. I still have trouble with shaving and razor burn though...my pubes are extremely thick and kinky curly (Mediterranean heritage?).

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The Marquis

February 15, 2010

Dear Lola,

If you're very experienced at pleasuring yourself, then you have learned some of the benefits of your larger labia, and that beautiful clit you mention.  You are very fortunate.  These attributes are a true gift.  Simply ignore the crude comments some immature boys make regarding larger labia.  Most men simply love them.  Also, most men love a huge clit.  Let us not forget that most women, who love women, also feel the same way.  Far from being disgusting and abnormal, you are blessed and gifted.  Don't hesitate to attract a boyfriend.  When you are ready, enjoy your body.  That's what it's there for.  Make good use of it.  As far as the shaving is concerned, the only real solution that I have discovered is the newer laser techniques which permanently remove the hair.  That eliminates all the issues involved with shaving.  Of course, there is a cost involved, so save your nickels.  It's well worth it.  Please keep us informed of your progress.  Also, you might want to take a look at www.pussyxxl.com and check out all the beautiful pussys, labia, and clits there.

Best Wishes,

The Marquis

I love my pussy

February 15, 2010

Lola,
Glad you are figuring out that Your Pussy is beautiful!
I spent years not accepting pleasure from my partners and being self conscious. I had a bad experience early on being told that I was a slut b/c of the way my pussy looked, even though, I had only ever slept with one man, at the time.
It's now my experience that Men love Pussy. All kinds of Pussy. I have Mediterranean heritage also and shaving leaves me itchy and razor burned and not smooth. I recommend getting Waxed! It's not that expensive and is super smooth and lasts longer.  You'll feel beautiful after!

I hope you let someone give you lots of pleasure! Feeling sexy, Looks sexy. Men aren't complicated in that regard ; ) Have Fun!

The Marquis

February 16, 2010

Once again, remarks from "I Love My Pussy" are right on the mark.  I hope that you take her remarks and suggestions to heart.

Best Wishes,

The Marquis

tempest_driver

February 23, 2010

Lola,

I am pleased that you have figured out that your pussy is a beautiful thing, and the fact that you have spent so much time getting acquainted with it before becoming sexual can only lead to a much more fulfilled sex life for you. The fact that you haven't had sex yet, although unusual, is not something to be concerned about. You should always be comfortable with the person you have sex with, and the fact that you're still a virgin just means that you haven't met the man who can put you at ease enough for you to give yourself to him. don't be in a rush. it's better to wait awhile than to feel like your first time was a huge mistake.

as for the razor rash, I highly recommend that you read Labi's segment on shaving.

www.sexylabia.com/pubic-hair2.htm

If you still have problems, there are other avenues, such as  depilatory creams, waxing or electrolysis. I know those sound a bit extreme. It may be that you simply can't shave, and probably shouldn't, I'm a huge fan of shaving myself, but I'd rather see a trimmed, happy pussy than one that is shaved, and in pain.

Just a few thoughts, I hope they helped  

XOXO t_d

tempest_driver

February 23, 2010

Lola,  

As a side note, if you feel like giving a few of us a peek, we'd love to help you celebrate your new found appreciation of how beautiful your pussy is with you.

If not, you can't blame a guy for asking

XOXO t_d

PJ69

February 24, 2010

Mediteranean heritage, large labia and shaved, or maybe waxed by now if you've taken the advice. Sounds like a place I'd want to spend as much of my time as I could.

From a mans perspective (or mine anyway), large clit and long labia are the absolute sexiest. I love to suck, tease and play with them ans the view when actually making love with them clinging to the side of my penis sliding in and out is something else.

I hope you find someone who appreciates them.

PJ

shaver77

February 28, 2010

1inch clit 2inch labias ....mmmmmm beautiful be proud.
With shaving waxing is the best option but keep trying ...results are worth it  
Cheers
Keith

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