No longer ashamed of my body

anonymous

July 1, 2008

When I first started puberty, I noticed that it was "long" down there. I was incredibly ashamed, thinking that it was not normal. Many other factors didn't help with my self-esteem, such as playboy magazines with women with supposedly "perfect" labias and crude comedians making cruel jokes about women with long labia. I was even too ashamed to talk to my doctor about it, thinking they would tell my parents that I was deformed.

Now I am 18 years old and after finding this site, I actually feel so much better about myself and that I am normal. Why does our society project the image that small is beautiful and long is ugly? It has given me and countless other women and girls needless insecurities.

Thank you so much for what you are doing, making women feel good about themselves!

Replies

Sailor

July 2, 2008

You are so young. Don't worry about it so much. If I may give you some advice... don't focus on the sex thing so much. It is more important you find the right guy. That could be tomorrow or next week or five years from now. Believe me, when you find the right guy he is going to look at you and your pussy and think you, ALL OF YOU, is the most beautiful thing he has ever seen. I'm a whole bunch older than you. With age come some wisdom. Trust me. There is nothing wrong with you.

The hell with Playboy. That is someone else's idea of beauty. It's some weird air brush bullshit. The real erotic side of sex loves something showing! Why would the guys here lie. Do they have anything to gain by not telling the truth.

Empowered

July 3, 2008

Sailor is absolutely right, in everything he wrote. Do NOT let the media and cruel, immature individuals affect the way you feel about yourself. I know it is very hard for you because you are so young, but listen to those of us that are so much older and have learned thorugh experience.

I have a beautiful, sexy large labia, just like yours. When I was your age, I never let it affect my sexuality - actually, I never even thought about it - and neither did any of my lovers - they all loved me and my labia. I NEVER had a lover EVER make a negative comment about my labia - only positive ones. So be confident with yourself - any man lucky enough to be selected by you to share your body with, will cherish your labia.

Add a reply