I've never had sex because of my big lips

Mackenzie

July 1, 2008

I've been very self conscious about my big lips and haven't been sexually active at all because of it. It's not that I don't want to have sex but I am always worried about how the guy will react when he sees my pussy. Looking over this site, it makes me a bit more comforted to know that I'm not abnormal. However, I know it will still take time for me to allow someone to 'go down' on me or to have sex.  

I'm not ugly or stupid, and I have many guy friends. It is hard though, because it's embarassing to talk about it, and many of my friends have already had sex which makes me feel even more embarassed. Knowing that I'm not the only one though has helped me significantly, hopefully I will feel confident enough to have sex with this guy I like and hopefully he will not think I'm ugly down there.

Thanks again for this site, whenever I feel down I try to look at it, and it lifts my spirits!

Replies

gm

July 6, 2008

You're not ugly down there.  What you have is sought after and wonderful.  Your guy may seem astonished at first - but he'll get over it once he believes his eyes as to what he's found.

BassMan78

July 6, 2008

Hopefully you are who you say you are (woman), so here's my take on this:
My honey has bigger than average inner lips, but they get even SO much more bigger when I suck on them...something I absolutely love to do.  One of the intros on this site is absolutely right - it's natural for guys to want to suck on a woman's body parts when having sex - so whether it's nipples or toes or fingers or pussy lips, it's all OK.   My honey absolutely LOVES it when I go down on her and suck and gently tug on her lips...she told me it's the girl equivalent of a blowjob.  I love to pull all her lips in my mouth and just suck on them and roll them around my mouth....I'm sure when you get a guy to do the same you will love it also, so just tell him directly to get down there and kiss it like he would your facial lips and be sure you let him know how much pleasure it gives you!

otiger22

July 14, 2008

Right on!, being in the medical field; just wanted women and men to know the tissue of the inner lips or "labia minora" is embryologically the same tissue as the male urethra, so; your wife is not far from feeling she's getting a blow job, she definitely IS!, keep enjoying this gift!

alexandra

July 17, 2008

hi mackenzie, just thought i would give you fellow female support on this issue. i have the EXACT same problem that you have, in that i haven't had sex because i'm too embarrased about how i look down there...i can't really offer you advice but i just wanted to say that i totally understand where you're coming from! : )

Brian

July 17, 2008

I've been with many women in my 50 years. I prefer women with larger lips, they are incredibly sexy !!

CLEM

July 27, 2008

BIGGER IS BETTER.  ENJOY YOURSELF!

fireandice

July 30, 2008

A ladies body is a special thing and the fact that you have been blessed with large lips is something I find most appealing.  I love to play and slowly open exploring the secrects contained inside.
Enjoy, you will find extreems of pleasure
x

slater

August 21, 2008

Well sex is a tender issue. Girl I think that if you still have an underdeveloped labia/kitten. You should not have sex at all spank and streach before you work out. Im 18 I know what im talking about a kitten never gets licked enyways so find a man that treats you like a large labia godess. Show self confidence and no mater what it lookes like it will be well enjoyed trust me I know from experence I am a G and the sweatest by the way.

masterj

March 8, 2011

your big lips give you more sex than smLLER ONES . MAKE A REAL MAN SO HAPPY TO FEEL THEM DURING SEX !!! J

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