Bi-curious but scared to go for it

Yvonn**

March 13, 2010

Ok, this my dilemma!
I have been bicurious for a while now and would like to  be with a woman but I'm so scared of what she is going to think (not that i i have someone that is willing to explore with me yet but im just saying for the future).
It keeps playing in my head what if she doesnt like what she sees or how am i supposed to tell her beforehand....huuuuuuuuuh. HELP!!!
( Body type: "PHAT" in all the right places including clit and labia)

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Gerry Gillespie

March 14, 2010

Hello Yvonn
Greetings to you. From reading your post, it's obvious that you are acutely self-conscious about your physical appearance.
As the wise and astute Labi has pointed out, in his brilliant response to "Small Labia" (see Post 2819 dated 10 Feb) ---"the luckiest people --because they are the happiest  --are those who can accept themselves the way they are"  
Now this acceptance does not come automatically, but over time, as one learns to come to terms with one's appearance.
If, as you have said, your body is 'PHAT" in all the right places, including labia and clit, then you can rest assured that there will be hot-blooded lesbian/bi-sexual women, along with most of the men on this site, who will be only too happy to get together with you, and partake of your succulent "goodies"
If you won't mind inter-acting with us, it would perhaps be useful to let us know in which country you reside, and perhaps provide an e-mail address, so that any interested parties would be able to reach out to you.
Don't worry, we are here for you, all the way. Feel free to reach out to the ladies, but don't forget us guys.
Cheers
Gerry

The Marquis

March 15, 2010

Dear Yvonn,

Never be afraid to follow your desires.  I assure you that most women, just like most men, would find your labia and your clit very erotic and desirable.  You have only to read the letters here to realize that many women see larger labia, or a longer, thicker clit, just as highly desirable as men do.  People who love pussy, love pussy.  It's really just that simple.  When you find someone to whom you are attracted, go for it.  Never hold back due to some fear regarding the appearance of your gentals.  That fear is simply unfounded, and incorrect.  You would be denying yourself great pleasure and joy.  Good luck to you in finding people who are wonderful for you, and be sure to keep us all informed.

Best Wishes,

The Marquis

tempest_driver

March 17, 2010

Yvon,  

Welcome to our little community, I hope we can continue to be here for you in the future. I think that if you really wish to find a female lover I think that you'll find that bisexual and lesbian women will be pretty close to men in what they think is a pretty pussy. While some will not like what you have, most will either really desire a well-endowed woman, or will love your pussy simply because it's a pussy.

Think about it, what do you find attractive as far as pussy goes? I think you'll find that you're not so unusual. And because we're most likely going to be dealing with a woman who has seen a few pussies, She's much more likely to be considerate of your feelings in that area than many men will be.

XOXO t_d

Eric

March 17, 2010

Yvonn,

I wouldn't worry about it much. . .when the point comes, you'll be so into her, and she'll be so into you what your pussies look like won't matter more than what they FEEL like. =0)

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