First. . .
I hate to the say this, but DO NOT go to a
Plastic Surgeon for advice, as their advice will almost always be
biased.
Your boyfriend sounds very intelligent and
respectful, and my hat is off to him based on what he told you,
because that is what any supportive boyfriend would do.
If
you feel like this is going to cause your major anguish for the rest
of your life, then by all means do whatever you think will make you
feel better.
I just ask you to consider the women who have
had the surgery already and now regret it. . .
The thing is.
. .there is nothing that can be done to improve the female (or male
for that matter) body, as they are perfect just the way they are, and
just the way nature intended them to be. If improvements ever
need to be made, mother nature simply improves it by natural
evolution.
Think about why your labia lips are large. .
.there are lots of reasons:
- More lubrication to make it
easier for you to have sex.
- More friction generation for your
pleasure and your mate.
- *Maybe* makes it easier to bear
children (you didn't see that one did ya?)
- More attractive to
potential mates.
As it's been stated here over and over,
thick labia lips give the impression of "more" satisfaction/pleasure,
just the way some women are instinctively attracted to a larger
penis, so it is with men being attracted to larger labia. It
doesn't necessarily mean that the man attached to the larger penis
knows what to do with it. . .in fact in his experience, it may be a
curse, simply because he has a hard time taking women in the doggy
style position because his penis is simply too much for them to bear.
As a result, he considers surgery to reduce the size of his
penis. . .
Now of course, this is all hypothetical. . .but I
am sure you can see the point here -- what you consider to be a
curse, your boyfriend, and perhaps other men who may come after him
don't consider to be a curse, but actually consider themselves pretty
lucky to have found a woman like you who in their perception will
make their sexual experience much more pleasurable with her large
labia lips. =0)
At the end of the day, most obstetricians
and gynecologists have seen more pussy than probably the majority of
us on this site combined, so if you're really in doubt, and want an
"no-holds-barred" opinion from someone who has seen their fair share
of pussy. . .why don't you ask your ob/gyn next time you go for a
visit if he/she thinks that anything is out of the ordinary about
your pussy lips, or if he/she thinks they are abnormal in anyway.
I think that would be your best bet. . .but after you get
that opinion, you have to promise us (and yourself) that you will
take that advice, and get on with your life, because I am pretty sure
the opinion of your ob/gyn will go something like this: "Well,
actually you'd be surprised to know that most women's pussies that I
see look similar to yours. They are all shapes and sizes, but
I've seen the small labia protrude like yours, just as often as I
have seen them NOT protrude. So I'd say women with large inner
labia are just as common as women with small inner labia, and I
consider your pussy to be quite normal actually."
Take care
and I hope this helps. . .
OH! And give your boyfriend
a high-five for me!
- Eric
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