turn off?

curious

September 14, 2009

hey guys and girls,
i just wanted to thank everyone who has contributed to this site.
I've found now i can accept my body as it is. but there a still few areas i would like consultation with

one is that i find that whenever i am with a guy, and even before we get into the sexual activity, that my clit starts to throb, and by the time the guys actually get their hands into my pants I'm SOAKING wet.LITERALLY. is this a turn off for a male?

the second being the coloration of my pussy. Its seemingly darker than my natural color. Is this normal? also im not sure if this is normal, but one side of my inner labia is larger than the other?

I accept my body as it is, im just unsure whether i should let anyone go down on me just yet.

your help would be greatly appreciated : )

xx

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The Marquis

September 15, 2009

Hello Curious,  You need to do more than just accept your body, you need to love it.  See K's remarks about Lady GaGa in the previous letter to this one from you.  To attempt to answer your questions, your clit is supposed to throb when you become excited, and your cunt is supposed to get wet and flow.  The more the better.  The more your clit and your lips become engorged, the more sexy it is.  The wetter you are, the more sexy and attractive and thrilling you are to your partner.  Many women have lips that are darker than their skin color.  This is quite normal, and not to be worried over.  Many women have one lip larger than the other, just as many women have tits that are not quite symetrical.  It's all very normal.  However, you are apparently very gifted, with larger labia, and a fabulous free flowing cunt.  Perfect!  When you're ready to have a partner go down on you, have no fear.  You are exactly what turns on most men and women who love women.  Go for it when you're ready.

long lips lover

September 15, 2009

ur wetness is not a problem at all...its actually a turn on to me. the wetter the better is the way i look at it, it shows that your actually into your partner! as for it being darker, thats really not a problem at all..its just nature.

tempest_driver

September 15, 2009

Curious,
I want to take a moment to echo the previous answers to your question. I not only find wet pussies a huge turn on, I found your description of what your pussy does a huge turn on. I would literally stand in line to suck on a really wet pussy.

And as for your clit, I hear over and over about how most women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. but you it seems have a pussy that's literally a ticking time bomb waiting for an excuse to go off, so I should think that you might want to consider yourself one of the luck ones in that regard. not to mention the unbelievable fortune of any man who ends up with you and is able to get you off with practically no effort.

As for the uneven labia. As Mr Marquise stated nothing in nature is symmetrical, however if it bothers you that much, you might want to see if there is a way to make the shorter lip a little longer to more closely match the longer one.

Just please, promise us that you won't consider getting the longer lip shortened.

Remember. More is better.

Tom J

September 15, 2009

Hi! I totally agree with the guys above. Finding a girl who's all wet down there when you get to touch her pussy has got to be one of the biggest turn-ons. It means that she is getting turned-on and is feeling sexy and as its the guy that she's with, it's the guy that is she is getting turned on and wet for! It's also a big ego boost for any guy! I hope that I'm as lucky when I find my next GF!

As for the colouration, thats natural too. If you look at the various photos, you'll see blondes and brunettes with various coloured lips, though of course blondes are more likely to have lighter coloured lips as well as lighter coloured areolas on their breasts, so whatever you have is completely natural.

I hope that these answers will help you and give you more confidence.

Take care and I wish you all the best.

Eric

September 16, 2009

Curious,

Umm. . .are you serious??

You're not pulling our legs right?

If not. . .can I be next in line?!?! =0)

I promise to go down and you and make you cum at least twice. . .

I'm sure everyone here agrees that a wet pussy with a throbbing clit is amazingly hot, and you did that around me, and I put my hands in your pants, and felt what was going on. . .I'd rip your clothes off, and have my face between your legs faster than you could say: "Holy shit I just came all over your face!"

I'd use my tongue as a guide to find that "throbbing clit" you say you have, and I'd make it throb even more until your pussy eventually exploded leaving a mushroom cloud in its wake like a nuclear bomb!

Then I'd give you a kiss so you could taste yourself.

And of course, I'd then have to let my buddy (my cock) sample the goods too. =0) *wink*

- Eric

curious

September 17, 2009

that is such a relief.
ive always seen it as abnormal.
thankyou for all your reaplies.

and tom, im pretty tanned, turkish : )
and my nipples are pretty dark aswel, but;

my areola is large aswel, i have DD's though, so im guessing thats normal too?

Tom J

September 18, 2009

Hi Curious! It's always good to see feedback from the original poster of the topic!

I think a lot of women on here are getting mixed up with what is 'normal', 'common'/'regular' and natural. You see normal means different things to different people. What I might see as being normal, other people might find it abnormal! Also different ages/generations, men & women and different cultures or countries will also have different views as to what is normal too. I think that you are maybe meaning common/regular or natural on the colouring and size of your areolas and breasts on your last message? Now I will say that they are not common as they are a larger size of DD! I think that you will agree with me on this?! But they are not uncommon or there would not be more manufacturers and shops selling larger bra sizes in recent years.

I will also say to you and the women on here in that your labia size, your clit size, your breast size, your nipple & areola size and whatever else is all completely natural! Yes, some will be less common/regular like the larger labia & clots that many women on here possess, but I think that the women on here already know this and it's great that they have learnt or are learning that they are not the only ones with these gifts and the sooner that more people realize this and think that this is normal? The better!

Personally I like bigger breast sizes such as C-E cup (so Curious, I's love your DD's!), but I also love smaller breasts too. Everyone has their own ideal preferences in most things, but it doesn't mean that that is all that they like and nothing else. Say for instance a rich guy is looking to buy an expensive supercar and his ideal preference was a certain model Ferarri, it doesn't mean that he only likes that model of that make! I don't know of any guys that are into cars that ONLY like one model of one make of car. So the same goes with guys preferences in women. Yeah we have preferences (like most guys on here liking larger labia), but it doesn't mean that we don't like women that don't have our ideal preferences. I'm sure that you yourself have some preferences in what you like on a guy as well?!

If you are that bothered about having one longer lip than the other, there are things that you can do such as adding small weights or gently pilling it. I think it's mentioned somewhere on this site - I've certainly read about it anyway.

It's because you are Turkish and have darker areolas that you have darker coloured labia and it's 100% natural and normal!

So Curious, your larger labia, your one lip being longer than the other, you getting wet very easily, the colouring of your labia, the colouring and size of your areolas, your breast size are all completely natural, sound great to me and are things that turn me on!

Take care care, Tom.J

Tempest_driver

September 18, 2009

Curious

I'm sorry but we're going to need you to provide us with evidence that you are as hot as you claim to be.

Several nude photographs of your body, paying specific attention to the areas that have been discussed so far should suffice.
 
Thank You ;-)

curious

September 19, 2009

hahhaaa tempist, great try : )
thanks so much to everyone who has replies, thanks tom: )
now i can do more than just accept my body.. LOVE my body : )

email me : )

tempest_driver

September 21, 2009

Can't blame me for trying.

But is you ever do decide that you want that degree of validation. Or you just decide that you want to share;-).  Please keep me on your short list.

Eric

September 22, 2009

Hey Curious,

I e-mailed you just now! =0)

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