hey hun, i have just found this site and i have posted just twice b4, but maybe your chasing something that dosnt want you, if u have read all of our letters and experiences, there are many men, willing and able to love a woman with a large labia, in here you are a queen, why even worry about someone who thinks any less of you than that. if you go chase the sterotypical frat boy or superhunk then yes u might get a negative response, but thats because they chase what society says is beautiful. its almost a slap in the face to any man who loves that, and if u do find a man that loves you for you beautiful vagina lips wouldnt you assume that the comfort level between the two of u would be very exciting? instead of constantly wondering if your bf is gonna leave or something ridiculous like that?in my opinion full meaty vaginas are like gems, i dont run into them very often, but if i find one, guarantee i will treasure it.