anonymously forever
June 23, 2008
Hi Everyone :)
I am 28, i am finally at a stage in my life
where i just want to be naked. Recently i have become " accepting "
of my body and my beautiful labia, and actually what i once viewed as
a beautiful pussy has changed, or rather i have seen how and why a
fuller labia is attractive, its more of a here i really am - every
line, ruffle and shape. Open and exposed. JUST when i took the plunge
and decided to have no more hiding, My boyfriend and i split ( this
had nothing to do with my labia ) anyways. Now i have met a man i
really ..... you know!! We have had sex numerous times, but i am
still feeling shy about my labia..... even though I'm sure even to my
denial he knows ... pretty much what i look like down there. I don't
want to feel shy, i want that confidence. I would rather someone
think my pussy is ugly than to think that i am shy about it!!!
So now i want to be free and i want to walk around him
naked with confidence and be crazy and wild like i am. In knowing
this, i know that if he has issues with my labia .. well then he
isn't the man for me ... this is more scary for me than ever!!!!!!
I wish he could see this site (but im not sending him the
link lol) just so its in his mind. When in my life i have heard men
talking about things like extra meat or beef curtains....it seemed
like they were describing someone so ugly and unattractive. And i
don't think i am ugly or unattractive. And if guys are hearing
this, i do worry my man will see me in full light and be like....here
is one of those "ugly" girls!
On this i remember
hearing this guy say something horrible about larger labia, and i
thought he was a really nice guy at first, he was NO Brad Pit (AT
ALL) but still there was something about him, well after this stupid
comment he stood no chance, what a idiot! and now i laugh about it
now because i know for a fact he would have loved getting down my
pants.
So what's the best way to come out of the closet "so
to speak" do i just drop my pants? get naked like i do with myself?
come out of a nice hot steamy shower? The truth is i don't want him
to act like it doesn't exist or get embarrassed. And if he doesn't
want to dig right in... i could be offended! If he would just give a
nice comment that would be enough (for then :)
Its not
like i want to sit around and discuss pussy and cock size of our past
relationships, i mean in truth it shouldn't be an issue. I just want
the most important person in my life to think i am amazing,
beautiful, hot and sexy! is this to much to ask? to enjoy every inch
of me. I guess i just want a fulling sex life. This person and i have
everything else.
I guess besides KNOWING i am attractive, i
have to really believe it and feel it.
going through all
this i remembered a time when i was younger i was with this man a bit
older and a lot more experienced than me. it was a time i still used
to wonder what was wrong with my pussy, but didn't give my feeling
much thought, just thought i was young thats why i felt uncomfortable
with myself. Anyways i remembered him going down on me and saying "it
was his favorite type" i remember not giving it much thought,
actually i think i was more excited about being somewhere i was not
supposed to be. Now if i see him i think i might give him a big wet
kiss!
So guys be vocal, be kind ... u might be surprised
what happens when you are open.
Thank you for all your
reading :)
MWAH
Empowered
June 29, 2008
Dearest Naked Truth;
Your story is a lot like mine - and I
feel so happy for you that you, like me, are accepting your lips as
beautiful. This web site has helped me SO MUCH during that
process - and I am forever grateful.
Let your man see
you in all your glory - if he is worthy of you, he will be very, very
loving of your beautiful lips.
Fred
July 1, 2008
just ask him to go down on you, if he makes a fuss always remember in the back of your mind that there are men out there who trade places with him in a second? by the way is there any dating forums to find women with big pussy lips? that would help out a lot of people around here. from my limited experience in this forum a large labia seems to bring women closer to their emotional side, which is another reason i find all of you BEAUTIFUL, it just seem that women and men who fall under society's definition of gorgeous or beautiful are very superficial and less sensitive to the feelings of others, and they have nothing to bring to a conversation or relationship besides the lusting eyes of other superficials. and they bring alot of unwanted drama. life is too short.
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