Im scared That guys will find it ugly.

hey nat, am 18 and have big lips that are an inch long! i am saving up to get labia reduction sugery because i have no confidience. i am a virgin because of them. find a good man who you connect with, am sure he will accept them if he isn't a prick lol. i just havent found that man! pick up your self esteem girl. ur young,free and should enjoy them. dont let it get you down like it has with me.i thought they were ugly at first but this website is ace for making you feel better about your body.i am just having the surgery for myself, no one else.
if you still need pickin up, reply. take care. xxx

I can tell you that you have nothing to worry about you are perfect because that's the way you were made. I think you should look at it as you are sharing a beautiful special part of yourself. Any guy that can't appreciate that isn't worth your time.

hey nat, Gorgeous18 is correct in some instnances about finding the right man, but Gorgeous there is nothing wrong with a full vibrant labia, why would u mutilate yourself just to impress a guy who would shun or look down on you because of something as its as if your slapping the rest of us men in the face who love that sort of thing just to be accepted by the "cool kids". if u can tell from all of these letters and forums there are many men out there who embrace what u have, why be a commoner in one place, when u can be a queen in another.....

Nat I'm the same as you. I'm 18 and still a virgin, although guys find me rather attractive I'm just waiting for the right guy. You shouldn't let something like that hold you back from experience life. I was the same as you, I became rather depressed looking for an answer, then I found this site. I realized I wasn't alone and I embraced my body, realizing that I can't change it. Although it took me awhile to gain confidence I'm fine with it. Don't worry some guys will like it, who knows you might swing others into loving large labia. If a guy says something about it he's obviously an asshole. I'm sure when you find a lucky guy who likes who, he won't really care. Best wishes, I'm sure everything will work out.

i'm 18 too and let me tell u, u are NOT alone.  I have really long labia too, and i used to be so ashamed i considered cutting them off myself.  now i am glad i didn't go thru such extreme measures because apparently guys like big labia.  LOVE URSELF!!  what we have is normal and most people like it!