I still have issues with myself

Lupe

June 4, 2008

I like your site alot of helpful tips. Though I still feel inadequate with myself. After I had my baby my body changed alot especially my labia. My husband doesnt like the change in fact doesnt seem to want to even look at it. It's silly it probably has to do with the way I feel. I grew up in a house where sexuality and exploring ones body was wrong. Someday I hope to be as confident like the women displayed on this site. Untill then I wait in the comforts of my shell.

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Sailor

June 6, 2008

I don't know what's wrong with these guys! Your husband should be supporting you now. Not making you feel bad and unattractive. The change you talk about is likely not nearly as much as think. But his attitude is going to through the issue way out of perspective. Have you actually asked him how he feels bout your labia? Just ask him straight out.

If you come from a family were sexuality was taboo this is going to be more difficult. You have a whole life a head of you with this guy. If he doesn't find you attractive now, I say cut bait and fish. Get rid of him.

Sounds harsh but gee. Listen to the people here. There are lots of men who would love at you and love it. Good luck.

lovesladies

June 6, 2008

I think I understand how you feel, Lupe. When my mother said 'sex', it was like a swear word. I have been fortunate in later life to find friends who are quite comfortable with their bodies and with mine.
I am a very visual person, and love to look at everything, but perhaps your husband is not. My ex, who had a great body, and with whom I have four wonderful children, was never really comfortable exposing her vagina in the daylight. Be honest with yourself and your partner about what you like, and hopefully you and your vagina will have a pleasant time. All the best. LL

Temptation

June 12, 2008

Your labia can grow from the hormones produced in your body while pregnant, its like God's way of giving women a second chance if they didnt turn out that way during puberty ;) hehehe

Nothing to be ashamed of, you should be happy, learn to play with your new lips and turn them into a positive thing. Maybe you should show your husband this website, a lot of guys are turned off by large lips because they think they are abnormal or other guys say they are nasty. Some times all it takes is for a guy to open his eyes and see its okay to love juicy lips.

:x <3

xxxdaydreamer

June 16, 2008

Well I just don't get it why a guy would act like that. You are the mother of his children and he had a hand in changing your body. I this case he should be enjoying the wonderful change that mother nature made in your Labia. I my opinion there is nothing more beautiful than a nice thick Labia.

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