I need your help!

Katie,

Please do not worry about getting intimate with someone because of your labia. I was in exactly the same position and although it didn't stop me having sex, I felt embarrassed about my meaty pussy and worried about the reaction. However, I have never once had a boyfriend look down at pussy in disgust, or say anything mean to me about it. You must act confident (even if you don't feel it). If you act ashamed, then he will probably think that you have something to be ashamed of. If you are confident of your body and show it off to him, then he is going to be so turned on that there is no way he is backing out of your bedroom! As for telling him beforehand, don't do it! I would think it weird if a man warned me before sex that he had a long foreskin, no foreskin, a huge dick, a tiny dick etc etc. When was the last time you met a man with a perfectly sized penis???? I haven't, but it doesn't make me any less turned on by him. Relax, enjoy yourself, and don't let insecurities rui!
n your chances of happiness. If you want to talk more then just email me. I am happy to talk more about this. I know from first hand experience how uncomfortable it feels to have a large labia when everyone else around you seems to have a "normal" neat little pussy x

You have to get over this Katie. Sex is one of the few areas we as human beings can let go completely with another person. Its primal and its important. Talk to your lover about your fear. I think you will experience something wonderful if he is a real man. When you discover he loves you and you large lips it will draw you together even closer. Don't hold back. Go for it!

I agree, it's all about confidence. If your confident that what you have is sexy, and it turns you on, he won't have any choice but to be loving your labia! besides, you dont wanna have sex with a guy who isn't going to praise you for your gorgeous body. Don't say anything before, you'll just get more nervous, like Bambi said, RELAX!

Just know that you are the sexy one in an encounter like that. You have to believe that it is you who is the better looking. If you weren't gorgeous, he wouldn't have gone down on you in the first place.

If you can just believe that, then you'll love it and let a man go down on you no problem.

Oh my God Katie. Just open your legs wide and show off your incredible beauty. No decent man is NOT going to be turned on by that!  

I was also shy and insecure when I was younger about my protruding inner lips but I can safely say that I NEVER EVER received a negative response. Just the exact opposite in fact. There's nothing better than sitting on a man's face, so don't let silly unnecessary worries take that joy away from you!