large labia and orgasms??? is it more diffcult to come?

burning question

May 24, 2008

Question here... it's always been difficult for me to come during intercourse... whether or not I'm on top.  I can quite easily orally but honestly never have during actual intercourse.  I always thought that my big inner lips got in the way of my clitoris and sort of blocked it from getting rubbed.  Or maybe it was too high from my vagina to get stimulated.  Now that I'm feeling better about my large lips (from this site!!! thank you!) I'm still wondering if there are any logicstical issues of big lips and getting your clit stimulated enough to come.  Any thoughts/tricks/tips?  thanks!

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KittyKat

May 27, 2008

I have had the same thoughts - like little lips would allow the clitoris to be pulled on with intercourse, right? First of all buy the book The Hite Report on Female Sexuality - I know its an old publication but it is absolutely jam packed with stories written by women about how they orgasm, very detailed accounts of how they climax (or don't) and that whole myth about the vaginal orgasm.

Have you tried a pretty vibrator on it while you're having sex? They come in REALLY cute colours with sparkles and pearls these days - no creepy faux-flesh coloured dongs! :) And we're so lucky - with bigger clits and labia your partner should soon know how to give you pleasure with the vibe. Even better - masturbate for him so he can see closely how you like it. My bf does that for me - kisses and licks my labia while I use the vibrator on my clit - it's excellent - I also use it every time we make love to cum. :) He usually gets it for me!

KK

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